Behind Every Great Woman

“Behind every great woman is a great woman.” — Kate Hodges

This quote has been ringing in my ears — partly because I’ve seen the truth in it, and partly because I know how often it’s not true.

Let’s be honest. Women in corporate America — especially in for-profit sectors — have made real progress. We’ve broken ceilings, built influence, and earned our place in rooms we used to only dream about.

But even as we’ve advanced, we sometimes find ourselves navigating environments where scarcity lingers. Where competition is subtle but sharp. Where it feels like there's only space for a few — and supporting another woman could somehow come at your own expense.

And yes, I’ve witnessed women holding each other back — directly or indirectly — not always with intent, but sometimes out of survival, fear, or cultural conditioning.

But that’s not the full story.

I’ve also been surrounded by women who were warriors. Vigilant, powerful, generous women who lifted others as they climbed. I’ve sat in rooms where women advocated fiercely for one another — and I’ve been on the receiving end of that kind of strength.

It happens. But often less frequently, and sometimes only in designated “safe” forums or behind closed doors.

That’s part of what inspired this reflection.

Since leaving corporate and stepping into entrepreneurship, I’ve experienced a different rhythm — women openly helping women. Without ego. Without competition. Sharing what they know, offering support, extending connections — without being asked, and without expecting anything in return.

It’s changed me.

As Women’s History Month comes to a close, I’m challenging myself — and anyone reading — to go beyond the celebration.

Don’t just join the women’s group or post the quote.Do the real work.Speak up. Stand up. Share the credit. Offer the seat. Give the reference. Make the introduction. Promote the potential — not just the polished.

Not just for those who feel "safe" to support. But also for those who challenge you. For the bold ones coming up behind you, who don’t need a handout — just a champion.

We didn’t get here alone. And if we’re honest, we’ve all been helped… and hurt. We’ve learned from both.

Now, we get to decide how we’ll show up from here.

When the smoke clears and you reflect on your career — what do you want to be known for?

Because lifting someone else doesn’t diminish your light.It multiplies it.